The beauty of a woman!

Oh how beautiful art thee. Created in all splendor and glamor. The female of all species is nothing less than the most beautiful creation of all times. If words could do it better, may be we would all call our spouses by one word...beautiful! But look around you, based on what she does best have we chosen to name them...honey for those that always put more sugar than required in your tea, sweet heart for they that have a longing for candy, darling for those that faithfully execute the chores, dentist for those that relentlessly empty thy pockets and the list is endless. None the less, a woman is a beauty.

But hey wait a minute...More women down here on earth are deceived by their beauty than men are.!

Ladies can testify, record upon record on men they have met that practically lust and or crave for them courtesy of their outlook and yeah, I must say men find it hard to draw a line between LOVE & LUST as the latter takes precedence most of the time!Then outward beauty of a woman is most deceptive.To a man, upon seeing her, it seems like that is all he has ever needed...the body whose silhouette the moonlight worships, the flawless skin, the perfectly defined curves and all, not to forget the killer smiles and hypnotizing scents..etc.

Enough of the praise and worship, back to reality...why this beauty deceives the ladies more than the men is because they tend to focus on keeping up appearances, wear endless layers of makeup, spend nights perfecting their hair do and editing their nails like their lives depend on it for the PRAISE & WORSHIP from the viewers is worth more than the actuality of her innermost being. Certain that not all that glitters is Gold, men could afford to date carelessly but will not at any one time risk marrying carelessly for they, surprisingly, can see further than the outside beauty in a woman they choose to spend a lifetime with! He can play along with the charm as the lady thinks he is in some sort of trance or obsessed yet deep down its clear to him that spending a life with her is the greatest mistake he can ever make!!

For the love of the attention, affection and praise, what I choose to call [AAP], the externally beautiful female species will always evolve into bitterness and depression whenever that aspect of their lives goes unnoticed. Consequently, they will, for some reason always repel any man whose shortcomings are in respect to AAP. Since 90% of the men are slow reactors to emotions, I politely imply they end up in as many relationships and cannot afford to sustain even one..woe unto them if this goes on for a lifetime.

The internally beautiful species on the other hand might not have what we the men think we want in a woman in the prime of our youth. The media has excelled in painting what we would call an ideal chic but sadly, there is absolutely nothing they dare to mention on the moral character. Corrupted by a stereotyped image that glorifies the externally beautiful woman, man gets caught up in between the craving to satiate his transient desire for pleasure and the need to acknowledge the emptiness there in of the whole project. The internally beautiful woman thus will normally go unnoticed, though the externally cute one will normally go unmarried.

It takes a while to appreciate a lady that is internally beautiful as she, in most cases, will not have what it takes to catch a man's eye on the outside. However, when she is finally singled out from the many, her inner beauty slowly spills to her outside. As a man, you begin to see it even better than the cosmetically modified one of the externally beautiful woman and...alas, there comes your actual package.

I would thus say a woman that is only externally beautiful is like an empty package wrapped with beautiful ornaments, gold and diamonds..may be roses too...you get her, you get nothing at all...its the art of deception, seduction.

As it is said, when you marry, let it be someone you can talk and share a life with coz wen you are older and have done all there is to be done...talking is all there is between the two of you.